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Barry McWilliams's avatar

This is fucking outstanding.

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Caroline Donahue's avatar

Awww, shucks. 😍

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Charla's avatar

That is gorgeous, Caroline, and the story made me choke up over my coffee. My husband often calls me “beautiful,” and it annoys me because my immediate is response is, “No I’m not.” Good for you for finding a way to reframe things.❤️

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Caroline Donahue's avatar

You are totally beautiful, Charla, and I also totally get it. We have the hardest time seeing it in ourselves. ❤️‍🩹

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Aleksandra Merk's avatar

Thank you for this, Caroline. I loved learning about the reasons behind your tattoos–so beautiful and empowering! (Just like YOU).

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Caroline Donahue's avatar

Awww, thanks so much, love. I knew you’d get it 🩷

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Jo Brannan's avatar

Beautiful words, beautiful ink, beautiful you 🧡

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Caroline Donahue's avatar

Thank you so much my love. 🩷🩷🩷

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Anna Brones's avatar

What a beautiful piece Caroline - both your words and that tattoo!!! ❤️

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Caroline Donahue's avatar

Thanks, love! Ready to come get one? 🤣

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Tara Penry's avatar

Wow! I can't think of a better reason to get a tattoo. Body art marks many occasions, but to decorate the skin to redirect the narrative about the skin seems most fitting.

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Caroline Donahue's avatar

Aww, thank you so much Tara! It has changed so much. I have found myself wearing tank tops or strappy dresses with bare arms for the first time in decades and it feels so different. Of course, there is the issue with just wanting more tattoos, but that’s a story for a future post, right?

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Tara Penry's avatar

That's awesome! Haha. Sounds like plenty of future material for posts.

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Caroline Donahue's avatar

Absolutely!!

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Rachel Ooi's avatar

A beautiful story with a beautiful tattoo! I agree we got to learn so much more about loving ourselves compared to loving others.

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Caroline Donahue's avatar

Thank you so much, Rachel. Sometimes it‘s hardest to be kind to ourselves, isn‘t it?

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Kimberly Fraser's avatar

Love this! Thank you!

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Sandra Serrano's avatar

This was really beautiful. When I was younger, in my teens, I had patches of eczema in my inner elbows and behind my knees. It was mortifying to show any skin - and I lived in FL! Fortunately, I don't suffer from it anymore but this essay took me WAY back! Thank you for sharing something so personal.

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Caroline Donahue's avatar

It‘s really intense, isn’t it? And wow… in Florida? That must have been sweaty times. I hope you enjoyed checking in with your younger self. 💖

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Sandra Serrano's avatar

SO sweaty! 🤣 My younger self was sweet and pretty great. I love her. 💖

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Caroline Donahue's avatar

awwww. She sounds amazing. 😍

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Jennifer W's avatar

What a beautiful piece of writing! And gorgeous tattoo. You are a work of art, Caroline! I remember having insecurities about my body and keloid scars in my twenties that took up way too much space and worry about my worth as someone to date and love. Thank you for sharing this.

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Caroline Donahue's avatar

It really takes over your mind and optimism, doesn't it? Thank you so much for your kind words, Jennifer. Glad we've both come through our twenties feeling less scarred about our scars. xx

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Leah McCullough's avatar

Stunning tattoo, poetry in lines and arcs upon your skin. Thank you for sharing your transformation with us. 💕

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Caroline Donahue's avatar

Awww, thank you so much love. 💖

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Anne Donahue's avatar

He’s not.

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Caroline Donahue's avatar

Not hyperventilating? Phew! 🩷

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Melany Franklin's avatar

What a beautiful piece of writing Caroline. Thank you for posting this personal story and giving us a sneak-peak at the inspired work of art that is your arm. Sending many hugs!

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Caroline Donahue's avatar

Thank you! Sending weird sideways hugs back (gotta protect the arm 🤣)

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Steph Rae Moran's avatar

What a beautiful post and a gorgeous tattoo! 💕 Your writing really hit home with me as I am in a continual battle against skin cancer, and I have many scars from biopsies and excisions. I try not to let it define me, but I grew up and live in SoCal, so ... you know. But I love the idea that you rewrote your story through art!

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Caroline Donahue's avatar

Oh love, sending hugs your way. It’s not fun at all. And SoCal makes it harder, especially with the sun you now have to avoid even more. Here’s hoping you come

to the other side of that process soon. 🩷

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Steph Rae Moran's avatar

Thank you 🥰

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Sarah Li-Cain's avatar

Such a beautiful piece! Congrats on the new ink, especially all that it represents for you :)

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Caroline Donahue's avatar

Thank you so much, Sarah. It’s been a beautiful experience.

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Candace Floyd's avatar

What a gorgeous piece (both the tattoo and the story). Congratulations on the new ink. I hope it brings you joy whenever you see it!

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Caroline Donahue's avatar

Thank you, love! It does, even as it heals 😍

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